Sugar relationships often present issues for Sugar Babies that they wouldn’t necessarily face in a conventional relationship. One such situation is dealing with your Sugar Daddy’s offspring – who very well be the same age as you.
Many Sugar Babies in such situations are simply seen by the children of their Sugar Daddy as a gold digger, and are almost always shunned when first introduced. Sugar Babies in this situation are treated with disdain, as the age difference can often present a major emotional hurdle for the older children who will be dealing with all sorts of issues of their own when they see daddy with a hot young Sugar Baby who is the same age as them, more or less.
Its important to be as nice as you can in your interactions with your Sugar Daddy’s kids, no matter how cold they can get. Don’t try and take them on in a battle of negative vibes, your Sugar Daddy won’t need or appreciate the energy. At the end of the day he will probably side with his own blood, so don’t add fuel to the fire and feed into any negativity they show towards you.
Stay polite and friendly, helpful and supportive if the opportunity arises. Try and find the one child your Sugar Daddy has that shows you a softer side and build an ally there.
Most importantly make sure your Sugar Daddy is happy and hope that his children will see that and be content that you are part of the reason he smiles all day. Extend your kindness to them in a humble manner and never disrespect their mother, or pass any inappropriate remarks about her in front of them.
Never divulge any secrets or relationship issues you and your Sugar Daddy have, they really won’t want to envision you having sex with their dad.
If there’s a family event you are attending with your Sugar Daddy, don’t over-do it with clothes, hair and make-up. Go for a classy, demure look and don’t get drunk and start a conga dance during proceedings. Be mindful of special occasions also – such as graduations, birthdays, school events etc, when the children might just want their father there. So if your Sugar Daddy invites you, gage wether or not it might be a better move for you to politely decline the invitation.
Chances are the first time you meet your Sugar Daddy’s children you will be met with suspicion and judgement so try and be as down-to-earth as you can to break the ice and start the relationship off on the right note.